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Cake day: March 28th, 2025

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  • It fully depends on the available information, doesn’t it?

    Without information there cannot be judgment.

    And if the information I get shows that a person was a bad person by my standards then my opinion sure doesn’t discriminate between them still being alive or not.

    If someone I liked dies and suddenly it turns out they were only likable in pretense or were secretly an asshole to others then that is new information that changes how I regard them. Yes, absolutely.

    And when I got to see information on this Kirk person I could not see how his existence improved any lives except those who were like hom who didn’t really care about him as much as they did regard him as a tool for their agendas.

    At most they are sad to have lost a pawn.



  • Yes, by my standards.

    We are humans. We need standards we define to measure against in all aspects of life. And I have had many, many years to refine my standards and so I trust in them.

    And yes, lots of people were indeed angry. Just like I have seen people be genuinely over the top angry because of other people… Not being religious, choosing an abortion, being nice and inclusive to a specific minority, etc.

    Being angry can very much be used for measuring my standards too.


  • I was in the “who?” crowd and when I read up on it involuntarily everywhere I also saw nobody sad. All who stated how sad it was were clearly using it as a tool for forwarding an agenda or because they felt they needed to. Non-emotional sadness.

    Sure, there might be people who felt truly sad because they had a constructed image of him in their heads.

    Just like a crappy 90s boyband had women deeply in love with their artificial personas.

    But people emotionally sad who knew the guy well? No, not that I could see in a remotely believable way.












  • SunshineJogger@feddit.orgtoUnpopular Opinion@lemmy.worldTattoos are stupid.
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    I have none and no intent to have any.

    When I see people with tattoos I have very different perceptions though.

    Some people look like they desperately wanted to make something meaningful. Use their body “canvas” to do the equivalent of a social media post for attention. “look at me!”

    Then there are people who have tattoos because of private meaning. Death of a child. Surviving cancer and other events that have left a mark already, just giving the mark space on the outside too.

    And a few other corner cases where it actually, simply looks good. Rare, but there.


  • Once the kids are all grown up and out of the house my wife and I will buy something very affordable and small with a reasonablly sized garden in wherever there is barely enough infrastructure and internet and then hopefully can reduce the money making time to less than the self managed time.

    But in this economy I will expect the kids to need us and this flat we pay for until they are 30…