Get open back headphones. They’re specifically for audiophiles who think headphones aren’t the same. I have some and love them. Ear buds and normal headphones feel like you’re trapped in your head. Open back simulate being in the room with music.

Also, fuck you if you play your sorry ass music loud enough that your neighbors can hear it or feel it. I don’t care if it’s just the sweet part of Fade to Black or the riff on Aerodynamic, if a neighbor plays that shit pound enough to broadcast the muffled remix, it’s fucking war.

Edit: actually an unpopular opinion, upvoted