My PE still makes me embarrassed even if I was a quick cummer from the very beginning. I guess that’s why I have created this community to meet like-minded folks. The thing is that it is some sort of kink for me. This feeling of embarrassment is also exciting, arousing and pleasant. So what about you? What are your stories?

  • Smallone304@lemmynsfw.com
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    19 hours ago

    The head of my small cock is very sensitive (probably should say overly sensitive) which makes me cum very quickly. I think the longest I have ever lasted as far as fucking or getting a blow job is maybe just around 1.5 minutes and that may be pushing it. When I first met my now ex-wife (we were together 25 years) She was a virgin and I had only I’ll say “tried” to have sex, the reason I say tried is due to the fact that the first time I ever was with a girl (the school slut) we were in the back seat and because I have a pretty small dick, and at the time a big belly, I couldn’t really get it in her pussy every time I did, I slipped out. But I still was able to cum just by the head of my little dick rubbed on her pubic hair, she was drunk or high at the time and let 4 or 5 of my friends fuck her one after another I honestly don’t think she was able to feel me at all and just let me finish. I was pretty embarrassed so I figured that since she couldn’t feel me at all any that after I came in less than a minute that I would make it look like I was still fucking her after I came so my friends wouldn’t know how fast I shot my wad. The second time was when I stopped at a massage parlor and paid to fuck, after I took my clothes off the girl took me to bathroom sink and then took my little dick in her hand and washed it with soap and warm water. It took everything I had not to cum right there. She knew that I was about to shoot, so she giggled for a moment and had me lay down, she placed a condom on me, which I knew was to big and wouldn’t stay on, she got on top of me and slowly sat on my cock, I probably came in about 15-20 seconds and she had to pull the condom out of her pussy.

    But even worse is when my ex-wife and I, on our first night together we were only "petting " each other by slowly running our fingers on each other, I got hard immediately and with in only a few minutes of "petting " each other and she didn’t even actually touch my dick, I felt the feeling you get when you’re at the moment you’re about to cum, I was trying to squeeze my dick trying to stop from Cumming and as I was rolling over, I started shooting and some cum landed on her, mostly on her lower legs and feet. She felt it land but didn’t really know what it was. I made up a excuse about something, and when she sat up and started to put her clothes on her fingers slid on my cum, she said that she felt something land on her but didn’t know what it was. My cum has not a lot of color and most of the time is more on the clear side. I acted like I had no idea what it was and looked at the ceiling and said maybe there’s a leak, it was raining at the time.
    Probably the next night or the following we had sex, luckily for me she also was fairly quick to orgasm. I know that it was 1 in a million or more for me to find a female who is able to have an orgasm that quickly. I honestly don’t think I could ever find a woman know that would be ok with my small dick and being a pre-mature cummer. And since she was still a virgin she didn’t have anything to compare me with a larger dick. Every time she would give me a hand job or blow job she would either keep rubbing, lick or suck the head of my cock after I would cum and drive me crazy (in the best way) when she did that I would be squirming and bouncing on the bed or wherever she would continue licking or sucking me until I couldn’t take it any longer. We were together 25 years, married for 19, had two daughters. Sadly, after all those years she decided to cheat and end our marriage. I haven’t been with anyone since. And also sadly don’t see anyone in my future either.
    I truly miss her in every way, but I really miss being able to experience that feeling when she did this to me. It’s something that you really can’t do on your own, it’s like trying to tickle yourself, you just can’t.

    • lowqualitythrowaway@lemmynsfw.com
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      17 hours ago

      That’s hot to imagine you squirming and bouncing on the bed. It’s too bad you lost her. I’m sorry she left you. :(

      But don’t give up on yourself. Put yourself out there and you’ll find somebody.

  • lowqualitythrowaway@lemmynsfw.com
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    22 hours ago

    I wear it like a badge of honor. My partner controls me with it. I always finish in under a minute, but I make sure to make it the most memorable 45 seconds ever! I always grunt and moan loudly and expressively. How about you? How loud are you?

    I also like being laughed at. All the videos on my profile are from zero to hero. That’s all I can last. If you view them and laugh, let me know. That would turn me on. ;)

    Thanks for the post. I love to talk about this topic. Reply here if you’re willing and able or direct message me if you’re more common that way. :)

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      5 hours ago

      Oh wow, nice! I wish I had such high level of self-esteem! Or maybe I do but kink mechanism makes it looking like I don’t? No idea. Anywya, I do cum fast and in silence, with an embarrassement on my face. As much as I love seeing and laughing at someone’s else “one pump action” I do not enjoy it myself. I prefer a little smirk and and a direct order to make the other person cum in any other way.

      I did watch your “records” and oh boy, you indeed cum absurdaly quick :D Even I can last a bit longer! Feel free to message me if you want to.

  • Majorllama@lemmy.world
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    23 hours ago

    I don’t have PE regularly but I think every guy has occasions where the stars align and you blow your load in the first three thrusts.

    In my experience when this happens as long as you can double down for round 2 relatively quickly most women won’t care. In fact some of them take it as a point of pride. Like their pussy was so good you blew you wad in seconds.

    I used to get embarrassed because the first time I was with someone it tends to go pretty quick, but once I get over my nerves my performances are apparently good enough to warrant repeat customers even after years of them shopping elsewhere. Sometimes even when they have signed an exclusivity shopping deal with another business.

    Take your time with foreplay. Learn to eat pussy how she likes it. Most women won’t care as long as they are getting off as well.

    • just_c@lemmynsfw.comOP
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      23 hours ago

      Thanks for sharing! I don’t complain about my sexual life (eating pussy is a neccessity) I rather try to disarm my kink:)