• Send_me_nude_girls@feddit.de
    8·
    1 year ago

    So I’m past 30yo and today I tried to get back into dating. I’ve joined a discord and most of them are around the age of 20. It feels alien too me to have so many short (1 to 5 words) sentences followed by cat gifs. Not sure if I can do this. I need deeper meaning and longer sentences. :(

    • jet@hackertalks.com
      6·
      1 year ago

      Your username is “send me nude girls” , and you’re talking about socializing for dating purposes on discord. You might be approaching this on hard mode.

      Might I suggest going out in person? Meetups, bars, shared activities, heck even tinder.

      • Send_me_nude_girls@feddit.de
        3·
        1 year ago

        My username is more of a joke than anything. I get the first impression vibes though.

        You’re right about finding outside activities, I need something to build my self worth.

    • Mothra@mander.xyz
      4·
      1 year ago

      I’d recommend you filter by age, and don’t date anyone younger than 25 if you are actually looking for a relationship.

    • dingus@lemmy.world
      3·
      1 year ago

      Discord is tricky because most of it is filled with teens. If you specifically search for 21+, 25+, 30+, etc. communities, you’ll have a much saner time in my experience. They do exist out there, but I don’t know how many are dating focused.

        • dingus@lemmy.world
          4·
          1 year ago

          That’s fair. I feel like mostly I specifically find 18+ and 21+ communities anyway. Since I don’t want teens, 21+ is what I tend to shoot for and there are still a fair amount of them.

          Although I’ve stumbled into 25+ servers before. These are the most preferable to me because by that point most people are out of school so they are more relatable.

  • jet@hackertalks.com
    7·
    1 year ago

    Had a fun debate with some civil engineering friends about city design,hexagonal layouts. I’m on my third cup of coffee.

  • cenariodantesco@lemmy.world
    7·
    1 year ago

    Doing alright, a bit sore from yesterday workout - had a cup of coffee and will start soon my workday, only one meeting scheduled and right at the end so not too bad

  • Mothra@mander.xyz
    7·
    1 year ago

    It’s alright, making small progress on a personal project. My feet are cold though, and it’s supposed to be full spring here yet we’re having cold damp days.

      • Mothra@mander.xyz
        3·
        1 year ago

        It’s entertaining enough, although sometimes I get bored when I hit a knowledge gap and have to figure out how to do stuff. I’m making a realistic creature in blender, and I’m somewhat new to blender.

          • Mothra@mander.xyz
            3·
            1 year ago

            That makes sense, but I have a fair amount of experience with maya an unreal so it’s just the blender how-tos stopping me occasionally. It is time consuming though, there’s no way around that no matter which software I choose.