Depending on where I post this, I’m expecting to get censored, because of my critique

So tired of the constant censorship, the mobs, the mods who just delete all your comments/posts when they disagree with you. I’m so tired. I’m not going to name specific people or communities but it should be obvious.

These privacy communities are all run by the same oligarchs who constantly censor and delete you any time you say something they don’t like, or something they disagree with. there’s no way to even have a discussion anymore without constantly being in fear that some mod who can’t touch grass will remove your post or comment. it gets to the point that it become really even shady.

It’s gotten to the point that I feel so repressed and pushed into a corner like it’s a dystopia that I can’t say anything, it’s so ironic. If you say anything bad about the popular and accepted tools or people, then you just get absolutely sh*t on. You get hunted down and crushed.

I have seen this happen to many other people too. People who are trying to have legitimate discussions and get shadow banned or censored for no reason

Over the years I’ve gone by many different accounts and names on various subreddit and a few other sites, including lemmy. Thankfully, a newer age is dawning with these federated servers, and anyone can easily make their own communities, so the censorship will be ineffective I think.

But in the meantime, I’m done. I’m deleting my accounts on reddit and lemmy, and honestly I’m just gonna not participate anymore. I joined these communities because I have a lot of knowledge to contribute, but I’m tired of feeling like everything I try to say is just going to get some mod who doesn’t even get paid, angry at me or the horde swarming me and screaming for saying something that isn’t completely neutral, or saying something they don’t agree with. taking opinionated hard-line approaches just isn’t viable anymore.

I hope my venting resonates with some others.

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      Yeah, haven’t had a bad interaction on this instance or others. People seemed nice across the different communities I left comments on.

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        Same experience here.

        Plus, I felt snoopy and checked the modlogs, and I don’t see any action against OP at all, so I’m not sure what this is about.

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          It’s been such a refreshing change for me. I feel like at least one person would just randomly go off on me for some perplexing reason when I was on reddit. I’ve not had that happen yet here at all.

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        I’ve also had the same experiences here and another Activity Pub platforms (mastodon etc.). Only interactions that I recall is someone being super blunt about something to someone but not any ban worthy. Moderators are quite quick here.

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    Maybe you’re just a bad person if nobody at all wants to listen to you.

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    You sound like your head is so far up your own ass and you’re mad all you smell is shit.

    If you’re a shit person people are going to shut you up. Maybe look inward a little.

    Also: “I joined these communities because I have a lot of knowledge to contribute” makes you sound like an insufferable ass

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      Very welcoming. Have you considered that OP could be right and you wrong or are you so up your own ass that this is out of question?

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              There you have indeed a point. However instead of saying this first you exhibited exactly the behaviour OP is criticising. Maybe reconsider and try to be a more decent human being?

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                What behavior?

                OP could be using different accounts or deleting comments or having comments deleted by mods. In the end, it doesn’t matter. The red flag is choosing to make sure not to exhibit evidence.

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        No it’s more that I can’t fathom what kind of content they are posting to be banned the way they claim.

        If everything you do causes adverse reactions from everyone else. It’s you that has the problem.

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            And there it is. Exactly what I expected from someone defending this viewpoint.

            Why would saying there are only two genders in an educated setting cause discourse?

            It’s become pretty damn easy to spot assholes hiding behind “muh freedom of speech” so when these assholes show up we remind them that free speech doesn’t mean what they think it does.

            If you have hateful thoughts you have the right to say them. And everyone else has the right to call you a bigoted shit head and ignore you.

            On the topic of the right place I agree. If I go to China and start ranting about Winnie the Pooh I’m gonna get thrown in prison or killed or beaten. But this is the internet. The main reason you’ll get banned from participating is if you piss off the majority.

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            I was curious why you were going so hard at bat for that guy, then you whipped your bigotry out and it all became crystal clear. Thank you for dispelling my concerns.

            Trans rights are human rights.

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                You really need to re-read that book, but without the preconceived rightwing slant.

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    Ah yes, it’s all just one big conspiracy to silence you. Definitely a realistic and grounded take from a very sane individual.

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      Funny thing is there’s probably an instance where they’d be welcomed. Would just have to search out the instances by looking through which ones are blocked until they find a home that fits their ideology from it. Beehaw loves blocking off instances so that’d be a good place to start to find an instance to try from there. Would help if they explained why they got silenced to direct them towards a potential home.

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    Clearly you’re not welcome in those communities for a reason. You’re doing the mods a favor by leaving.

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      It does sound like that, but I’m not judging without having seen their content.

      I’ve experienced similar things on Reddit in the past; most recently a downvote brigade swooping down on myself and another experience storage administrator in r/hoarders for suggesting things - out of considerable enterprise expertise - on how to make storage on consumer grade disks more reliable and more recoverable.

      Mostly I just shrug and move on, though. I’m addressing the OP, not the screechers, and if OP saw the advice that’s all I wanted anyway.

      This person seems to take more issue with it, but they’ve taken their own way forward.

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    These privacy communities are all run by the same oligarchs

    You’ve posted this in multiple communities that have completely separate management, some of which are ran by normal users just like yourself

    who constantly censor and delete you any time you say something they don’t like, or something they disagree with. there’s no way to even have a discussion anymore without constantly being in fear that some mod who can’t touch grass will remove your post or comment. it gets to the point that it become really even shady.

    This is the only community where I haven’t felt like that, similar to others’ comments here in this thread. What you describe aligns with my experiences lurking in some privacy communities on Reddit though…

    I joined these communities because I have a lot of knowledge to contribute

    These communities are not all the same. Some will be more welcoming than others when it comes to sharing information on various privacy-focused tools and knowledge.

    The onus is on you to to identify a community that is welcoming, and converse with others to find out why some people may agree or disagree with your perspective on something. Privacy is a very broad topic - although we’re in the same community we’re not all protecting the same things.

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    If you refuse to name and shame, then no one here will give a fuck about your problems, and nothing will be done to fix the issues most of us agree with you on.

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    If you know any community that’s not heavily moderated and does not look like 4chan, lemmy know.

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    You could start your own sub on Lemmy or even your own instance , i myself didnt see much censorship here yet.

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    I feel you. I just don’t participate in any discussions any more. Especially on ‘good’ instances… If you don’t agree - you are bad and get a ban.

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    You should check out Burggit. I came here because of their lack of censorship and have been happy so far. If you check out an instance and see a page long list of things you can’t say then I know it’s not the place for me.