Reasons why women might be drawn to toxic relationships in otome games, plus recommendations for red flag LIs | Otome.com

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Reasons why women might be drawn to toxic relationships in otome games, plus recommendations for red flag LIs | Otome.com

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Why Are Women Drawn to Toxic Relationships Especially in Otome Games? | Otome

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Many women find themselves captivated by intense, volatile, or even toxic relationship dynamics—not because they want them in real life, but because fiction

Explanatory post, not a shaming post for those who like red flag LIs. Found this useful for anyone who wants to understand—I certainly read a lot of similar explanations from fans of red flags in otome during my time on Reddit. Also useful for engineering an LI for your own game 👀

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