• otter@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    10 months ago

    Hey, now. No need to be judgy, friend. In English, that’s generally phrased as “fucking someone over”, btw.

    FWIW, the puritanical origins of such demonizing non-reproductive sex acts should be beneath us as a species, at this late-stage, IMHO.

    For instance, “sodomy”, according to many laws across the globe, and regardless of dominant relation in the area, is defined as anything other than missionary position — incl. oral, manual, etc.

    (Because the Church/Temple/etc. needs fresh blood and butts in seats, not independent happiness, self-discovery & trust-based fulfillment. Religious institutions muuuch prefer to have their hand on the only tap, so they outlaw and psyops all others they don’t own…)