• Funderpants @lemmy.ca
    73·
    1 year ago

    What makes a log cabin gay? Put a couple of self hating Republicans in it or is there more to it than that?

        • BiNonBi@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOP
          17·
          1 year ago

          That’s why the step grandfather’s plan failed. If he had just left it alone Moki Awa would only be able to build a straight log cabin. But with all the skills gained from attempting to “man the queer” out of them, they are now able build the gayest non-straight log cabin.

    • gamermanh@lemmy.worldEnglish
      7·
      1 year ago

      Each log is painted a different primary color from the rainbow

      A rainbow is carved out of wood above the door

      And the inside is full of proper BDSM mounting equipment properly installed

      Duuuuuhhhh

  • NoStressyJessie@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
    72·
    1 year ago

    Didn’t make me stop wanting to paint my nails and wear skirts, it just added an extra layer of internalized self loathing and an overall sense that I had no place in society and should just die

      • NoStressyJessie@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
        11·
        1 year ago

        Well, there are a few things that could be. Maybe you like to dress that way, maybe you like to express yourself more feminine but identify as a man, maybe you are a trans woman who is a lesbian.

        I have a feeling that you have some soul searching to do either way, as those answers come from within.

          • Cybermass@lemmy.world
            9·
            1 year ago

            I did haha whoops

            Though I also feel them on the dad forcing you to do manly stuff. My dad was always like “why don’t you have a girlfriend yet” constantly since I was 9 or “you should play sports not play on the computer” n shit like that. He doesn’t do any of that now that my computer stuff has me making more money than him though haha fuck you dad

            • NoStressyJessie@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
              3·
              1 year ago

              Sorry about that. Self love comes from within too. Everybody’s road to self acceptance is different. I started mine about three years ago when I took way too many shrooms and had a mind blowing experience where I realized I hated my body, but didn’t really understand why, so I spent an unknown amount of time coming up with things I appreciate about my body, like my muscle memory when typing or other small things. It sent me on a long journey that led me to discover why I have had such a strong disconnect with myself.

              I don’t necessarily suggest you do that yourself, as you can really Fuck up your psyche, and you don’t really get to choose what lesson you’ll learn or what kind of experience you’ll have.

              Ideally an individual would be able to experience that guided by a mental health professional for safety and to keep you focused on something productive.

              I hope you can find some things to appreciate about yourself, because the things you focus on are the things that will drive you or drag you, and we can be our own hardest critic.