- cross-posted to:
- trans_joy@lemmy.blahaj.zone
- cross-posted to:
- trans_joy@lemmy.blahaj.zone
cross-posted from: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/41202906
The rain came back but ima still wear my dresses!
Im sorry to hear about the comrades who dont get to be their true selves this week, i hate to see it
Ill girlmode for you! This dress is actually pretty special to me. Its my first ever dress i got after coming out to my wife! She bought it for me and i loved it 5 years ago and i love it now!!
Excuse my mess and dirty mirror, im not gonna clean it 😂
Anyone else have special clothes like this?


Hell yeah! You may think this dress is made for me. But ill let you in on a little secret, i barely fit this dress comfortably, and if i gain any more weight than what i have now, it will not fit.
Lol i do love this dress though. Its what made me realize that the all black goth punk look i always thought i liked was just me dressing dark to disappear, turns out im a light color nature theme cabin in the woods gal 😂 i love it, just unexpected
Try not to think too hard about it, just send it! If you think too hard and stare at yourself in the mirror i guarantee youll find something you hate that noone else will notice. We all do it. I do it with my shoulders and chin alot, i just try not to dwell on it.
Also, thrift stores! Thats where you can get cheap dresses in different cuts and fits and find what you like! If anything doesnt fit, or you dont like the way it looks, just re donate it! (Obviously if youre in the financial position to do so) ive actually done that with entire hauls before. Ill get them all thrift, get home to try on (cause not completely public yet) decide i hate them all and re donate them 😂
Whatever you do, youll rock it!
Fuck yeah that was actually the confidence boost I needed right now. Thank you.
Yay im glad i could help. No need for thanks, i love helping people and lifting them up, is just who i am ❤️
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Great advice tbh. “dressing dark to disappear” is on point.