Unfortunately, I drive a ghetto minivan which causes the police to profile me and has caused people in small towns to call the police on me if I am in a public park or in their neighborhood. I even had someone call the police on me at campground that I had pre-paid for and the police were not sympathetic at all to my right to just exist.

I am aware of stop and identify laws and know that a cop needs reasonable suspicion to demand to see your ID. However, can’t the cop just make up some lies about reasonable suspicion?

If a cop approaches me can I immediately start with: “Officer, do you have reasonable suspicion that a crime has occurred, is in the process of occurring, or is about to occur?” It seems like that will immediately escalate things even if technically the law is on my side.

I just want a damn right to exist law and to not be a target for an overactive imagination by the police which treats me like a criminal until they can check me for warrants.

Honestly, I want to tell them to fuck off right away but I also don’t have money for a lawyer.

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    I don’t see how asking for an ID is harassment. Like, are they asking you every day even though they know you by now?

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      different towns…also the incident at the campground happened and there were other people camping. The cop didn’t go check in on any of them. His specific “reasonable suspicion” was that in the past at that campground they have had trouble with “riff-raff”. Great! So be it, then why not go ID check all the other campers then? I was being profiled and targeted because of the vehicle I was driving. If you don’t understand then that’s because this hasn’t happened to you 10 times or more. It gets tiring.

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        But I don’t see how you can argue yourself out of the situation. Even if you find the magical words you can say to police officers to leave you alone, you will still have to say these words to them in every town. At this point just showing your ID seems like less effort.

        I was being profiled and targeted because of the vehicle I was driving.

        Not arguing that. But I also don’t see how you can change anything about that without changing the actual vehicle. There is a reason my drug delivery guys only drive B.M.W. and Mercedes.

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          I don’t want to argue…in fact I don’t even want to talk to them. I just want to say “If you don’t have reasonable suspicion then I am not legally required to show you my ID” then I want them to go away. I suspect that would not happen. I was hoping someone would read my post and tell me that they did that exact thing and let me know how it turned out.

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        Were the other campers actually camping and you were just a minivan parked at a campsite?

        Because not many campers just sit inside a minivan the whole time.

        But meth heads do, because they can’t smoke meth out in the open.

        Stop being angry people notice you, and start trying to blend in. If you’re paying for the site, you might as well use it.

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          I have a ghetto van. It does not blend in. The campground was one incident. There are many more which have happened in parking lots where other people are also sitting in their cars. Since the invention of smart phones a lot of people sit in their cars for various reasons and look at their phones or use laptops. It’s not illegal nor suspicious to sit in your car. - Anytime you vent online people look for an angle to blame you. I just want to exist without being harassed like everyone else.

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            What is a “ghetto van”?

            It seems reading through the comments you always point that out as the reason you’re getting singled out.

            Maybe you should improve the Van such that it’s no longer a “ghetto van” and that would help to stop said profiling.

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              Have you seen early 2000s Dodge Caravan models? Imagine one of those with dents and a lot of rust. All of life is about money - sure the solution is go buy a $100,000 RV but if I could do that I would have already done that.

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                It’s not an all or nothing thing dude. Just because you can’t make it perfect doesn’t mean you can’t improve it. I’d say try and fix those dents. Often you can reduce how bad a dent looks without specialty tools or paint. As far as rust, you can get rust converting primer to spray on. It’ll help stop the rust as well as make it look like you’re trying to fix the van instead of letting it rust down around you.

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            So…

            You did go to a campsite where families were in tents and you just sat inside your sketchy minivan and don’t understand why the cops were called?

            It might be just one example, but it was your pick. You saw nothing wrong with you behavior or understood why it was suspicious…

            So there’s a good chance lots of the time you don’t see a reason, there’s a very good reason it’s happening.

            Go lurk on r/vandwelling on Reddit, there’s a shit ton of old posts going over common sense stuff that you would greatly benefit from. And I sincerely mean that as good advice, by your own admission you want help.

            But there’s not a lot of people on Lemmy, and this is pretty important.

            So go reathe posts of people who live this life and have been doing it for years.

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              I am upset about the profiling. Being poor does not automatically make you a criminal. Like when they profile people of color or Middle Easterns at airports. There’s plenty of rich dudes driving $100,000 cars who are committing crimes in society. I know there’s nothing I can do…just venting. Also, I had out of state license plates. As long as the locals were using their imaginations they could have just imagined that I was driving cross country (which was actually the case). So, because I am poor and have an ugly van I have no rights to use a campground that I paid for, right?

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            Can you grab a crap tent you can throw up, just to look the part? Something that’s quick to put up just to look the part. Or heck just leave camping gear outside conspicuously

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              I have thought about that. It is a good idea. I believe in psychology they call that “signaling”. Might have to start doing that. But I don’t go to campgrounds a lot. I still get harassed if I am eating fast food in a public park or just sitting somewhere on my laptop.

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      Lol ok if different cops came to your front door multiple times a week, asking for ID, you don’t think you would feel harrassed.

      That’s privilege buddy.

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        Your frontdoor usually doesn’t move from town to town, entering different jurisdictions … but ok buddy.

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            It’s almost like cars and houses are different.

            I understand OPs situation. Your non-sense analogy isn’t adding anything.

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              So you draw the line of a domicile somewhere between RV and van, just like the law says. Like a guy living in poverty is less entitled to peace because of his choice of cheap vehicle.

              Bootlicker.

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                So you draw the line of a domicile somewhere between RV and van

                I did not draw such a line, no Sir or Madam. I’m not sure where you got any information on me making such distinctions. I really don’t know where you are getting this.

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                  You are right, you only implied it like a cunt. I suppose unintentionally which would mean you are an ignorant cunt.

                  By “house” you are implying domicile, which can be a vehicle or mobile home. Or are you implying that all these people don’t actually qualify as being housed and therefore should expect regular police visits?

                  Are you not making statements consistent with how to world is, or with some consistent internal logic?

                  Do your words mean anything or not?

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                    By “house” you are implying domicile, which can be a vehicle or mobile home

                    You brought up the fucking house. Go read your comment:

                    Alright, get a visit from the cops every time you move house or stay at a hotel.

                    I haven’t even mentioned it before. You’re living a phantasy in your head talking to yourself. I’ve never mentioned any of the stuff you’re talking about. Get off your high or seek mental health. Nothing of what you’re talking about originated from my comments.