Pokimane is not the best example because she does seem to like playing games. If there is a line between “dressing nice and being attractive” and “leveraging sex appeal” she is definitely way over it though lol. It’s like putting on eyeliner and foundation compared to the perfectly styling their hair and putting on makeup and wearing revealing clothes to make themselves look as generally attractive as possible. Also leaning in to parasocial relationships like saying omg you’re so sweet!! To donations saying im in love with you. It’s usually pretty obvious when someone just wants to look good / attractive vs when they’re thirst baiting.