Fyi, a month is not that long. There is only a 5 day window per month where a pregnancy can theoretically happen and just getting the ingredients in the right spot doesn’t complete the magic.

It took us more then a year for our first kid (and literally 20 minutes for our second)

The main difference was we put a lot of not fun work in it because the wish was so big, causing a huge amount of stress which I afterwards theorized made us to sick to be any “quality“ of fertile.

Then cause we already had “the wish” completed we decided to do the opposite and just not think about it for the second one, let nature go its cause.