My brain is always pretty bored and jumps from language to language, so I learn a bit of Language A, then Language B, then switch back and forth. French has shorter chapters on the app I learn it with, Busuu, and I already know a good amount of Spanish (which I study in school) and Portuguese. However, while Italian might cause me to mix up Spanish, Portuguese, and Italian, it’s easier to pronounce. It also, however, has longer lessons on Busuu.
French is spoken in many countries, though, and I’m also LGBTQ if that makes any difference, since some people study languages from countries that don’t support/respect the group they’re part of.
I think Italian is more fun. Incidental: Italian with Grammar by Mark Twain has always stuck with me. I think it’s a pretty good read.
I also frequently mix up my Spanish and Italian.
As for the LGBTQ-ness of it, I think they’re both fine choices. If I know anything as an American, it’s that France and Italy are two of the gayest countries in Europe, the gayest continent.
Even my heritage country of Norway is pretty damn gay and that’s in Europe, so yeah.