Columbia University senior Emma Sulkowicz, 21, says she was raped in her own bed at the beginning of her sophomore year. This week, two years after the alleged assault, Sulkowicz, a visual-arts major, has made a promise to carry her mattress around campus every day as part of her senior thesis. It is, she says, a symbol of the burden sexual-assault survivors carry with them every day.

“The act of carrying the mattress from inside my room out into the light has mirrored the way my life has changed, as I’ve brought my personal story out into the light,” Sulkowicz told TIME. “This project is a way to heal one of the most difficult things that happened to me. As I will build muscle and get stronger, hopefully I will also build emotional strength.”

Sulkowicz started the performance-art project on Tuesday, and she said she is determined to continue carrying the mattress wherever she goes — to class, the library, the gym — as long as her alleged rapist is still on campus. That means her project could last until graduation day in May 2015 — unless her alleged assailant is either expelled or chooses to leave the school. Last year, Sulkowicz and two other women reported the same person to the university. All three cases were dismissed.

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    But until there is some major breakthrough, this is the best system we have.

    Not when universities have the ability to hide evidence and obfuscate real investigations in order to protect these men. Which they have done time and time again.

    This is not the best system we have. We can’t even get the police to process rape kits.

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      Then fight for a better system, like I said, but don’t incite lawlessness or start an argument with the one person advocating for due process.

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        Why do you think these stories are getting such traction right now?

        These investigations were corrupt.

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          Then reinvestigate and improve the system, but don’t let yourself fade into even more lawlessness. Like I said before, this is an arms race you will not win against the likes of Trump and his cronies. They will always one-up you in ways your own consciousness won’t even let you imagine.

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            Then reinvestigate and improve the system, but don’t let yourself fade into even more lawlessness.

            What the fuck do you think we’re doing when we talk openly about these things with righteous anger? What the fuck do you think we’re doing when we demand that universities no longer sweep these accusations aside?

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              Geez Velma, calm the fuck down please. What is it with you trying to get into an argument with whoever you can? Why are you even arguing with someone who wants the same thing you do?

              Digging up every old case and publicly shaming the alleged perpetrators is, and will always be the definition of lawless. You’re simply not a judge. You don’t know the facts nor the evidence.

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                Public pressure can do wonders for making change.

                Geez, Photonic, maybe if more people pushed back on some of the absolute horrid takes I’ve seen around, I wouldn’t make it a point to be so outspoken.

                Oh, it’s your creepy ass again:

                "What’s this then, Velma? Literally the next day I find you on the music community raging about pedophilia? The comment was supposed to be a sarcastic criticism about how you’re using the MAGA playbook to discredit politicians outside the US. You weren’t supposed to be taking notes… "’

                Yeah I can continue to not give any of your opinions weight. Thanks!

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                  I am pushing back on your horrid take on lawlessness. If you think my take on advocating for due process is horrid I don’t know what to tell you. (I do, but you’ve gotten worked up enough already).

                  your creepy ass again

                  I left one public comment in a public forum and never talked to you again. Please explain in detail how that is creepy.

                  I can continue to not give any of your opinions weight.

                  You could, but it wouldn’t make you any better for it. And you really need some better.