I’m curious as to how many of you are TikTok users. If not do you watch short form videos anywhere else such as YouTube Shorts or Reels?

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    6 months ago

    What if I told you staying in touch with people from childhood is entirely unnecessary, and you would have naturally moved on from them?

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      6 months ago

      When I turned 18, I joined the US military and left home. I spent 20 years living all over the world, wherever the military sent me. Every 1-3 years, I was in a new home where I knew nobody. If it wasn’t for Facebook (and MySpace for the first handful of years I was serving), I would’ve lost contact with everyone I knew every few years.

      The Internet was pretty primitive back then and smartphones weren’t a thing yet, so I had to keep a phone/email address book on me, along with a bunch of phone calling cards if I wanted to contact people I know.

      2 years ago, I retired and moved back home. Thanks to my Facebook connections, and staying in touch with people over the years, I had a community to return to. My wife and I are introverts with ADHD, so making new friends is really difficult. We’d basically be living like hermits if I didn’t already know people in the area. So I personally think it’s very important to maintain the social connections I have.