Interested in any/all perspectives, how are the sensations different or similar, do you have a preference and why, is one or the other more erotic to think about, out of 10, how would you rank the best vaginal vs the best anal?

And if you have a penis and experience penetrating both, definitely answer the same questions!

Reason I ask is I have a penis and find vaginal penetration very hot (both thinking about it and doing it lol), and I’m curious what it feels like, but the closest I’ll get to experiencing it myself is either in dreams or however similar anal penetration is. So I wanted to see what y’all thought 😊

  • Ahornygirl@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
    19·
    6 months ago

    They’re both very different sensations. Vaginal is easiest and I agree with RB, missionary is the best. With the right angle it’s a 10/10 orgasm. Plus you get to see your partner’s face and reactions which is always enjoyable.

    Anal takes work and time, but once he’s actually in it does feel good, the orgasm is different but with toys for additional stimulation it’s a 7/10 and a much different intensity.

      • Ahornygirl@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
        8·
        6 months ago

        It has happened before! Usually I need clitoral stimulation but sometimes it does happen without, like if he’s got a curve or I’m positioned in the right angle. From what past partners have said anal is great because it grips so tightly but just at the opening, after that it’s far less stimulating than vaginal penetration. So for me it’s nice sometimes but PIV will always win, hands down.

        • bendovertherainbow@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
          5·
          6 months ago

          This is pretty much my experience from the other side of things. Anal is fun, it’s mostly going in that feels incredible.

          To note one big difference, if there is a toy involved (as in DP), totally different story - feels incredible the whole time! Now we just need another penis to enjoy and we can see how that feels.

          In general, PIV is my go to, love being able to see my wife’s eyes, or how her expression changes while I’m inside her. That right there is more of a turn on than anything else.

          • Ahornygirl@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
            6·
            6 months ago

            I’ve only done DP with a toy but I agree it feels incredible! MFM is one of my bucket list items 😉 it’s really hard to beat PIV. I 100% agree, being able to see your partner’s face, whisper in their ear when something feels good is the best. It’s all a huge turn on 😊

            • bendovertherainbow@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
              6·
              6 months ago

              MMF hope here, we’ve done MFF which was lots of fun too. Well or MMFF, plenty of ways to enjoy things!

              We’ve also only done DP on her with a toy, but she loved it - and so did I. Hopefully we’ll get the option to try a few more things soon 😉