I would like to know if I can feel safe here, or if I should pack it up and start looking elsewhere sooner rather than later.

If the kbin staff have already made there intentions clear, please let me know.

  • zalack@kbin.social
    16·
    1 year ago

    I’m okay with a small bubble of randos as my Fediverse, I don’t need – or want – my social media to be “everybody”.

    I’m in a discord with my friends and that’s pretty much all I need.

    • EnglishMobster@kbin.social
      5·
      1 year ago

      That’s fair, but I personally want my social media to be “everybody”.

      That’s actually what brought me here to Kbin - I loved that it had Mastodon integration and connected everybody to everybody else.

      I was originally on Beehaw, which is very much trying to capture that “Discord with my friends” feel. And that’s totally fine; I understand that and respect it and think it’s valid.

      But the point is that we have options. Kbin especially is great because these options can happen at a user level; you can go in and block entire instances from your user account, and it’ll be just as if that instance was defederated. Admins don’t need to maintain a short allowlist or a large denylist; you can curate it to your comfort level on your own.

      But I’ll also recognize that it’s not inherently a small community - you’re taking a big community and slicing off parts of it, which isn’t the same. But there are spots for that cozy feeling across the fediverse if that’s what you want. I just don’t think a broad flagship instance like Kbin.social should be one of those spots.