• HelixDab2@lemm.ee
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    3 months ago

    I mean, yes?

    No one ever does anything for truly selfless reasons; so-called selfless actions receive some kind of positive reinforcement. Yes, when I’m nice to my spouse, they’re more likely to want to be nice to me. When I donate money anonymously to a good cause, I feel good because brain chemicals are telling me that I’m a good person. If you removed that positive feedback loop, then people would quickly start acting solely in selfish ways.

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        3 months ago

        Absolutely. If we didn’t have this feedback loop in our brains, humanity as a species would die out in a generation. Psychopathy is super-bad for species survival.

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    3 months ago

    I was spending a bunch of money getting some items framed for myself and my partner brought me over to admire a painting on the wall. I decided to inquire about the price quietly when she wasn’t nearby. I surprised her with it and she loved it as a gift. But it was also a way to feel better about how much I was spending on myself. Doesn’t make the gift make her any less happy.