• Sethayy@sh.itjust.works
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    2 months ago

    Yeah I agree with that, and people need their argument dopamine hit so things are gonna by defualt get unruly pretty quick.

    I think the only thing I disagree with is making it too much of an us vs them situation, as hard as that is when it feels like they’re doing the same, but hey maybe I was just born out of hippie times and am feeling the pain lmao - they had some shit going on when they disagreed with labels being overly general in my opinion

    • Diva (she/her)@lemmy.mlM
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      2 months ago

      I agree, some people are just argumentative, there’s a time and a place.

      I take the criticism about making this too us vs them, but part of the reason for the reaction was not about dividing people but pushing back on bad behavior. Anyone who views themselves as a cis ‘ally’ who finds themselves in the situation of trying to ‘prove their point’ to a bunch of trans people in a trans space really needs to self-crit and step back.