MaybeALittleBitWeird

31M, Bi, kinky, goofy, and a little queer. I’m just here to look at naked people being sexy and having fun - please don’t message me unless you’d like to have a legitimate conversation.

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Cake day: July 3rd, 2023

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  • There are a number of reasons. First and foremost though I just want to address a common misconception that Findom(me) =/= Prodom(me):

    • Prodomme is what you would consider a stereotypical dungeon dominatrix. You are paying a professional for use of their time, space, and knowledge for bdsm services.

    • Findom is short for Financial Domination. It involves a relationship where a submissive(almost exclusively male) gives money to a dominant(almost exclusively female) and generally involves elements of humiliation of some form for the act. The expectation is generally that you will be treated as a human ATM with a complete disregard for anything else.

    It’s frowned upon because it’s extremely exploitative and violates a lot of mutual respect tenets of BDSM play. Typically it’s used as an easy guise which is low hanging fruit for lazy sex workers and scammers trying to make a quick buck and can easily get out of hand quickly for a site that leaves it unchecked. It exists in the same vein as Sugar Daddy/Sugar Baby play, but without even pretending to have a relationship beyond financial gain.










  • Eh, I’m sure they’re better than you think. The rope cupping your breasts looked a bit loose so that may have been contributing to things traveling a bit more than you would have liked. Still better than anything I could do with my stupid asymmetrical shoulders 😁

    Yeah, I agree that it does have that spark of a feeling of early Reddit days, but it’s also inherited a bunch of the problems with new Reddit. Mostly just that everything needs to be highly politicized or posted just to be outrage porn. I will say that the people here are definitely more genuine, passionate and interesting. I’ve got my reservations about the long-term health of NSFW here though, but that’s an entirely different discussion.