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  • Donkter@lemmy.worldtoMicroblog Memes@lemmy.worldI was so young back then
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    4 days ago

    I think people don’t realize how many doors are automatically open for them if they’re polite and hard working. Lots of interactions go way smoother if your end is always covered and the person you’re talking to wants to help you because you’re being nice.

    Compare this to someone who is lazy and impolite. I think polite people would be genuinely surprised at how shit the day-to-day life of someone impolite is. Of course we’ll never hear it from the impolite because a defining characteristic is that they’re self-centered and ignorant.

    The key is asking for it. Someone lazy and impolite who asks/demands that things go their way will get a lot of validation (externally at least)

    But if you’re polite and hardworking and ask to get your way (which is not necessarily impolite, no matter what the perpetually anxious try to tell you), you actually have even more opportunities laid out for you.



  • A lot of us over here are the same way. “Yes, we know he’s wrong at every turn and every time he announces a policy it’s throwing us deeper into chaos. Just shut TF up about it until we get to do some direct action like resisting ICE in our neighborhood and do some protests that actually shut some things down until demands are met.”



  • I would say if you think you can tell someone is acting in bad faith. Call them out on that and explain clearly why it’s bad faith. You can just ignore any response after that but I think it’s extremely helpful to future readers if you can make them more aware of the tactics people making bad faith arguments use.

    As op said. If you don’t have the energy or desire to make a response it’s more than ok to not engage of course. I would not want to wish arguing with people online against your will on my worst enemy.


  • China is capitalist and authoritarian. Their investment in their people is done with the goal of neo-colonialism as they use their wealth and influence to indebt growing nations to China. They invest in their people, but only enough to stave off mass protests. We see a lot of wealth come out of China, but remember that we could witness China uplift an equivalent amount of people to the entire population of the U.S. and they would still be oppressing a larger percentage of their population.

    It looks like it’s working in contrast to the U.S. right now because we are currently crashing out as a nation, rewarding cash-grabbing opportunists even more than we have for all of U.S. history. Idk, there is a chance we fully burn up in this shit show going on right now and that would de-facto make China’s system technically better, but I think that’s the only way. I mean the atrocities China has committed against its own people and people around the world in recent decades is ridiculous. I know you weren’t going to bat for China don’t worry.