I have always been upfront about it when attempting to date. You’re right though, some people don’t believe it exist, and others feel they can “fix” me lol
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A lot of the time I think I haven’t been clear enough that I dont want sex, I’m always so confused when it happens. I have ptsd from a rape that almost killed me, now my response to any advances is to freeze up and dissociate
Anyeay, I’m ace, and I tried dating someone on an ace specific site. We met up at an Airbnb (we lived in different states), and I kept saying that it made me uncomfortable how many men take my playful conversation style and laughter as an invitation to sex. And that under no circumstances did I want that. You can probably guess what happened.
I haven’t dated since then, because it’s apparently the only way I can be safe. I don’t think all men are like this, and I’m sure a couple would be horrified if they realized I wasn’t consenting.
Wow. I listened to this album on repeat endlessly in the aughts. Never thought I’d be struggling to remember who made it, because this band used to be in my top five favorites
I don’t think there’s anything wrong with being a furry. But I am absolutely not one. My username refers to an episode of Deep Space Nine
I don’t understand the rest of your comment
I have EDS and it definitely feels like this sometimes lol
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NonCredibleDefense@piefed.social•Oh boy surely nothing more will come of this
11·10 天前This is exactly what I pictured when I read the news about the Venezuelan president
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What's a video game you were bummed about finishing, wishing the experience lasted longer?
6·10 天前Horizon: Forbidden West because the story,music, voice acting, and gameplay really pulled me in. I felt a lot of emotions that I hadn’t felt in a long time because of this game. When it ended I felt like I was losing something dear to me lol
Baldurs Gate 3 left me wishing for more, but that is entirely because the third act was so damn rushed compared to the rest of the game.
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Trans Joy@lemmy.blahaj.zone•And, just to conmemorate, here is my last outfit of 2025English
6·11 天前That cardigan is amazing!
I think they were talking about the controversial vaccines like the anthrax vaccine, which is one I received while in boot camp
He’s looking at her hair, instead of meeting her eyes. I’m an eyeball avoider myself, but that’s usually not a good idea when trying to make a good first impression lol
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World News@quokk.au•Will Smith sued by tour violinist for sexual harassment
6·11 天前The article made me wonder if Smith is homophobic. The line about having a replacement violinist ready to go when he was fired made it seem like this wasn’t a snap dismissal, though
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Not The Onion@lemmy.world•DHS Says DHS-Certified Real IDs Too Unreliable to Confirm U.S. CitizenshipEnglish
372·12 天前I lost my real ID and had to replace it last month. I brought my passport, assuming that was good enough to prove who I am, and the dmv website said that is an acceptable document.
They wouldn’t accept my fucking passport as proof of citizenship or anything else at the counter. This is after scanning my face to make sure it matched the photo on my lost ID lmao. I had to do the Karen thing and ask for a manager
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WomensStuff@piefed.blahaj.zone•Beyond Kegels: I found a fix for a common type of incontinence – why don’t more women know about it?
6·12 天前I’ve been in pelvic floor therapy for a year and have felt like total crap because I’m still leaking doing every day tasks, to the point that I wear diapers. I’m not even 40 yet and never had kids!
I had no idea there were other options
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Today I Learned@lemmy.world•TIL my dog would probably eat me if I died alone.English
54·13 天前I’d rather they eat me than starve. If I died tonight it would probably be a few weeks before anyone noticed
I can do that today when I talk to management about something else. I doubt they’ll do anything, they’d have to tear out some curb to make it accessible. Guests aren’t actually allowed to park on the property, but that isn’t something that should apply to people with mobility problems







Wikipedia says their minimum monthly salary is about $116, $7 is about 6% of that.
Yeah, that’s still insulting lol