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Cake day: March 18th, 2025

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  • This may have been an entirely innocent interaction, a cleaner - thinking a bloke was in the women’s said that this is the women’s. I’m sure the cleaner was embarrassed to find out that they made a mistake. I think it is blown out of proportion to fan culture wars and generate clicks. Barley newsworthy.

    I was once changing my child in the boot of my car when I had long hair and a man assumed I was a woman by “saying excuse me love, where is x”, I turned around and my beard and generally male appearance startled him and he apologised. I then told him where X was. Perhaps I should of went to the BBC and by now I could have had a published autobiography.













  • I’ve tried to keep on top of not allowing ai to crawl through my personal data on various services. Google going through my emails is like going through my physical letters, it’s extremely intrusive.

    It’s getting tiresome. I think next year I’ll have a go at self hosting my emails. Email is one of the big things I have kept online and the same as everything is linked to it. It’s like your digital address.

    Most users are just quietly accepting the significant loss of privacy, especially nowadays as a lot of our lives are online. I don’t believe there will be any pushback from users, governments need to step in but they are seemingly unwilling to.






  • Good_Slate@lemmy.worldOPtoParenting@lemmy.world•Stealing 7yo
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    Thanks. Yeah, I don’t want to shout at her really, it isn’t something I do. I have tried to talk about the moral aspects and how it makes others feel sad already. You’re recommending more of the same, I was worried about limited effectiveness. She certainly didn’t feel sorry when she apologised to the shopkeeper, but she was incredibly embarrassed and shy about it, to the point I’m surprised she did so! I’ve also tried the story thing and so has another trusted adult. Another poster mentioned removing vegetables as something she likes, this could be a direct consequence. As you say, I don’t want it to be about 'not getting caught ’




  • Good_Slate@lemmy.worldOPtoParenting@lemmy.world•Stealing 7yo
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    It would be a community support police officer, in the UK. It wouldn’t be a criminal record sort of thing nor even saying my daughter is stealing or anything serious. Basically a discussion of what can happen if someone steals. Just an idea. They have regular community events which we would attend and I’d ask ’ what happens if '… My wife is a psychologist, so we have that part covered. Thanks for your response.