You mean it’s not normal to reach that point and then be paralyzed by the loop? 🙃
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Infynis@midwest.socialto
ADHD@lemmy.world•I went out to work on a new lid for my compost - now all my screws are organized and my bike's brakes are cleaned and servicedEnglish
2·20 days agoJust make sure you get back to it before another project disorganizes all your screws again
Infynis@midwest.socialto
ADHD@lemmy.world•Loving to Info-dump but cant tolerate others speakingEnglish
2·20 days agoIt’s a skill you can learn. If you’re into TTRPGs, I’ve found that can be a great way to practice, because the format is engaging, and the nature of the game benefits from equal contributions. I try to make characters that focus on setting up other members of the party in different ways. When we’re in combat, I try to involve other characters in tactics, and in roleplay, I make an effort to involve everyone at the table. GMing is especially good for this, as you want your party to be doing most of the talking, and you want everyone to be having fun.
As I’ve played more, and interacted in other casual social situations, I’ve definitely gotten better at filling an appropriate role in a conversation. I’m the host! It’s my job to make sure everyone is comfortable and engaged. Usually that means asking smart questions and getting people onto topics they naturally enjoy, usually to do with their own lives. Shared interests are a bonus (and often the roots of a friendship). And it’s something that I can do anywhere, even if I’m not actually hosting the gathering, because it just comes off as being genuine
Infynis@midwest.socialto
ADHD@lemmy.world•Loving to Info-dump but cant tolerate others speakingEnglish
2·20 days agoI met a person like this, and married her. It’s great. I never have to worry about keeping the conversation going, and can just enjoy being with her and contributing when it’s natural for me
Infynis@midwest.socialto
ADHD@lemmy.world•Brain scans reveal 3 ADHD subtypes, including a more extreme formEnglish
1·20 days agoBut someone did mention another bit of information, which I fell down a wikipedia rabbit hole on for about 2 hours! So maybe now I can read the article
Edit: I did it! I also watched two and a half YouTube videos about homesteading.
This third type describes my wife perfectly. She’s had lots of other tentative diagnoses like bpd and autism, but has still been struggling to work through it all, and find an effective combination of medications. She actually takes antipsychotics, as well as a high dose of hydroxyzine as needed in emergencies
Infynis@midwest.socialto
ADHD@lemmy.world•How to "power up" faster in the morning?English
1·25 days agoThis is what my wife does as well. She has a really hard time getting up in the morning otherwise
If the US collapses in the next decade or so, we may have our chance again. Free the Caribbean!
Depends where you lived. Not everywhere developed the same or even any methods of counting time below day/night
I’m taking 30, and my doctor told me that’s that max they can prescribe. I’m ~175lbs, and this seems like the right amount for me. I have really high tolerances to other substances, like alcohol, and caffeine, so I expected I’d need a higher dosage, and we arrived at 30 pretty quickly.
Having a smaller dose to take later in the day sounds nice. I often feel my meds wear off a few hours before bed, when I’d like to be focusing on a hobby, which I’d love their help on. I think I’ll ask my doctor about breaking up my dosage into two at my next appointment.
If 10mg feels like it’s working for you, and you think the 5mg boost will be enough, stick with it and don’t worry about comparing to other people’s dosages. For me, my meds working feels like more energy throughout the week, and more ability to focus on and start tasks that otherwise could have bored or paralyzed me. I’d recommend you focus on getting to something like that with your meds if you can, while minimizing side effects (I’ve only ever had some slightly increased emotional volotility in the first couple weeks I first started n Adderall).
Infynis@midwest.socialto
Dull Men's Club@lemmy.world•Not sure if this is allowed: Can I get your best pictures of "yep that there's your problem"English
7·3 months agoA couple years ago I was a field technician for an ISP in Michigan. There was a customer connected to this terminal reporting their service down.

Infynis@midwest.socialto
rpg@ttrpg.network•Sinister reasons for beer price inflation?English
1·3 months agoA brewer that is trying to make their beer increasingly addictive is both a cool magical villain, and a fun modern metaphor!
Infynis@midwest.socialto
ADHD@lemmy.world•My want to retake my meds but my wife doesn't want me to. Any advice?English
20·3 months agoYou are being abused. Get your meds.
Rule 6 says no sexism! Just make sure to keep it dull
Infynis@midwest.socialto
ADHD@lemmy.world•Anyone else have trouble getting meds and feel discriminated against?English
5·3 months agoAbsolutely. Just the fact that I have to call my doctor every month to get my prescription renewed, rather than it just being a normal refillable prescription feels like it’s intended to make me forget, and go of my meds.
My partner’s doctor actually told her that they probably wouldn’t continue prescribing her stimulant if she were to become unemployed. Because everyone knows you don’t need executive function for your life! Just for work.
Infynis@midwest.socialto
ADHD@lemmy.world•ADHD Veterans / Non-Service Affiliated PeopleEnglish
2·3 months agoCrazy ADHD would be disqualifying for joining the military. In life-or-death situations, distractibility becomes vigilance. There aren’t a ton of studies on the benefits of ADHD at the moment, but it’s hypothesized to have been a survival advantage evolutionarily, and has even been shown to increase the quality of decisions made by military leaders.
But I guess you’re probably also more likely to recognize bullshit 😜
Infynis@midwest.socialto
TenForward: Where Every Vulcan Knows Your Name@lemmy.world•Many haven't seen this niche Star Trek seriesEnglish
10·3 months agoA Canadian cartoon about caring bears for kids sounds like exactly the kind of thing that would exist in the Federation. It would just be on the Holodeck
Infynis@midwest.socialto
TenForward: Where Every Vulcan Knows Your Name@lemmy.world•Kirk, you dog!English
2·3 months ago
Infynis@midwest.socialto
United States | News & Politics@midwest.social•Trump threatens to destroy Iran’s desalination plants. Here’s what that could mean for the MideastEnglish
2·3 months ago“Desalination facilities are oftentimes necessary for the survival of the civilian population and intentional destruction of those types of facilities is a war crime,” said Niku Jafarnia, a researcher at Human Rights Watch.
Infynis@midwest.socialto
TenForward: Where Every Vulcan Knows Your Name@lemmy.world•TNG endorses AIEnglish
1·3 months agoThe way the various shows handle the holodeck is pretty similar as well. It can generate environments and stories for you, but sometimes it makes crazy mistakes, and over time, it’s made clear that custom programs made by real authors are of higher quality. It even has guardrails that frequently fail.
The replicator is the same idea. It makes good-enough food, but a real chef with real ingredients has a higher ceiling for quality.
There’s a quote from a character in Generations, “We believe that when you create a machine to do the work of a man, you take something away from the man.” It aligns with the Federation’s ideal of self improvement, and in a post-scarcity utopia, I think it makes sense. Without intellectual property, environmental concerns, or the need to work for a living, AI isn’t so terrible. It’s just important you maintain your own motivation to better yourself. Too bad we’re so far behind on all those parts








There’s a list of the people reinforcing those flawed foundations in the Epstein files