My Main account is on lemmy.ml
(for now):
https://lemmy.world/u/Maebbie@lemmy.ml
However I am not happy with lemmy.ml starting infighting between instances when we should be working together. Time will tell which instance is the most free unfortunately.
defederate enough and people will switch, much less friction to just go to a more open instance. much better than what we had with centralized sites.