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Cake day: January 7th, 2026

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  • As a former smoker of 20 years and nearing 2 packs a day by the time I quit. Please do yourself a favor and try to quit. You will thank yourself.

    Vaping got me off of cigarettes, it was the only thing that was going to be able to as I was hopelessly addicted. I always smoked regular cigarettes, but I found that I preferred menthol fruit flavors. The coolnes feeling made it feel more like a real cigarette.

    I can get you off cigarettes in one to two week. All you need is a pen vape and a couple flavors of about .5 nic salt. Buy one pack of cigarettes.

    First two days start vaping as much as possible whenever you have a cigarette cravig, but allow yourself a cigarette if you need one. After this try to skip one cigarette, by end of week you should still have a few cigarettes left. I kept two 9 years ago and I still have them in my truck dash kard. But seriously keep two on hand by end of week or second week. Keep them in vehicle house. I found that helped loosen my anxiety of not having cigarettes around physically. And now those two cigarettes are a memento that I won.

    Bonus after a month or two of being strictly vaping. Quitting vaping cold turkey is much easier than normal cigarettes. I didn’t even have a problem quitting cold turkey. The only issue I had remaining is the physical mouth throat hit. So I got some zero nicotine menhol flavor. And would just take a light puff of that whenever that urge arrived and one would usually get me through the entire day.





  • What’s even better is we haven’t spoke since my wedding, this would have been 13 years earlier to this conversation.

    In HS he was obsessed with these three girls from a different town, populstion 200, maybe if I’m being generous. looking back im pretty sure he was stalking them but I was clueless to that. But he always wanted to go to this town every Friday night, even wanted our group of friends to go with him. Sometimes we would and when we did, there would be nobody out cruising. And we would quickly go back to our town.

    But every weekend we didn’t go with him and he went himself.the following Monday at school it would be, oh man there were so many good looking girls out this weekend we need to go back

    I’m actually starting to realize how cringe this was, now that I’m recapping. and he may have been a predator it’s actually making me, now that I’m recapping, sort of nauseous. As there’s so much more I could say. A lot of us did tire of his behavior and some of us were like he’s an asshole but he’s our asshole

    What finally broke is he was a groomsmen and left during rehearsa to go find chicks in this same small town 6 years later.The guy peaked in highschool.


  • Ok story time. The point will be after. you remind me of my highschool classmate, 1996. In 2015, 19 years after we graduated, at a funeral dinner none the less, he asked me if I had ever been to the strip club in Lincoln. And if I haven’t I need to go with him because they treat him like a king whenever he goes. It took everything in my wife and I power to not laugh. This guy still lives with his parents, and has never been in a relationship to this day.

    So when you say “I’ve seen probably hundreds/thousands of naked women online, and maybe a dozen IRL? And it’s true what they say, you see one, you wanna see 'em all.” You sound exactly like him. 100% douchebag and forever lonely.




  • My daughter is Gen Alpha, 2014. It’s hard to believe she will be a teenager next year, I can’t believe how fast 12 years have flown by.

    I really hope this country can start turning things around and Trump becomes a distant memory and women start getting the rights to their bodies back. Will be a long time before that happens in my state.

    I think her generation is going to pay heavily for our failures but I believe they come out stronger in the end and more united against what will make their lives hard.