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Cake day: November 10th, 2025

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  • Yes, 100%. Go talk to people. Travel. Trust. Love. The internet, social media, the news are as real as lord of the rings, or fortnite.

    I have almost never met someone evil or truly unreasonable. I have of course left places that were not working for me. People trying to rope me into status games I didn’t care for etc, or pressure me to do stuff I didn’t want to do. Sometimes it’s unpleasant, even painful. But not remotely something that can counterbalance all the great interactions and great people I have met. Heck, it’s doesn’t compete even just the kindness complete strangers have given me.

    Catch people who do you harm in a different situation, years later and talk about it, and the same people are often reasonable, open to change, open to talk about why they do what they do.

    You don’t have to forgive them. But for me, it helps.













  • I’ll preface that you’re trying a much harder language than me so maybe such a method is truly necessary but for me I didn’t do any “repeat X many times” I just tried to understand, and once I knew what was being said, I was happy to move on I never had such a structured method, although I do sometimes write down lists of words or phrases I don’t know and ask friends about it or look it up. My phone’s notes app is full of them. I don’t worry too hard about words that I keep forgetting multiple times, if they’re common words they’ll come with time.

    I try to avoid Google translate/chatgpt, I feel like it’s nicer with my physical English/danish dictionary or asking friends, but I understand not everyone has instant access to native speakers.

    Just remember that the biggest thing is to keep at it. Time beats all



  • I’m learning danish while living in Denmark. I have terrible ADHD. I think the biggest two things I’ve found that’s helped my pronunciation and helped a lot with understanding casual spoken speech has been a) singing together with others. I think the dopamine and activeness of trying to predict how a line will be said Vs how people actually sing it shows how words can be changed and chopped up and how they can’t (how do people naturally change or squash together syllables to fit the song and/or rhyming)

    B) is podcasts. I have found them very good for commuting/gaming. At first they were language learning ones specifically but now its stories, trivia, etc. I still really struggle to listen to podcasts with multiple hosts but im getting there. I think seeing stuff with subtitles is a bit of a trap - i found myself quite reliant on them and couldn’t understand anything with them off. Much better to struggle through podcasts bit by bit, pausing where I need, and after a couple of them I was mostly up to speed






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    4 months ago

    Wow thems fighting words. But i’m thinking you’ve perhaps been eating the wrong ones? I’ve had some truly dire ones, its not like its a recipie impossible to mess up, but most of them i’ve had are really amazing. Crispy sides, slightly soft bottom is the ideal imo, but you also can’t make up for bad ones just by the cooking, it’s also what they’re made of