Anna. Tomato Pan Demi A(ce, ace in the old style meaning - not before 3rd date). BlobFox. Domestic pet.

It will be good, great even.
But first, I have to panic, scream, insult and cry out all my tears, (like a true drama queen bitch?).

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Cake day: October 26th, 2026

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  • Titanna@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto196@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Beauty standards rule
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    4 hours ago

    I feel like that’s some serious question?

    It is like that coz some wants profits.

    It is not enough to sell beauty products, as once achieved, income could drop - You need to pursuit another beauty. And poof, we have a fashion.

    Nah, it was still not enough, so, they started to make You feel ugly, so spend more. Follow all these photoshopped ai enhanced pictures from ads everywhere, unreachable standard. Spend.

    Fuck it, ignore standard, go get beauty in self from self (whatever that mean, rarely someone can judge self as “good enough” or “damn pretty enough”).


  • It’s all handled differently by local culture and local law, per each country. In my country, any doc can, and often do interrupt the process, faking results or simply refusing treatment as it is against personal religious believes of the doc. Personally, went thru over dozen mental health doctors in my city, and none were friendly to help (ok, one were, for 10000€ over 3 years), currently have to travel for few hours each week to get a little help, that is still interrupted by lot stuff. If we could get some friendly rules by law (and laws are made by state, don’t they?), I could maybe have some argue vs doc, currently I’m in sht.

    Sorry for personal vent… guess local experiences do affect our pov. Please be assured, Imo transfolks should get best, that includes lots of autonomy.


  • Oh totally agree… education to 10-12yo kids about possibilities. Full ahead! My life would be way better too, yet, I’ve learned things while around 30yo ;_;

    I DO NOT call to ban HRT for young persons. Every transfolk, adult or kid should be able to be self!

    I just worry if some could hurt self on a whim, while not being a trans - adult person can get responsibility on own action, but underages have some of that responsibility taken from them. I’m talking about some friendly verification, if a child saying of being trans, truly are? Are they - drop the HRT very next day!

    At the same time, no, I don’t have an idea how that verification would look, hope some friendly specialists are smarter than me, and they may make decisions. Also, if they, smarter than me, make a law to let everyone easily get hrt, I wont oppose that.


  • Afaik not only. Delaying is one thing, Giving other hormones is second thing.
    Delaying things, totally can see to let everyone delay freely.
    To replace, personally wish I could trust my kids after long talks. But can also see, most kids have nuffin than 67 memes and minecraft in their head, lot’s may want as true phase or because some idol told em to.

    Even adult eggs have the rule, that none should push egg crack, but the egg must do this on its own. We do not say to person in questioning that they are this or that side. These shells on younglings gonna be extra vulnerable to media or influance… tiktok challenges “tell parents You wanna change gender and record from hidden cam”. What now?




  • I’m trans, bit old even.

    HRT for underage being some limited? Can talk, sometimes kids may do not know what they want, some could verify with extra care and without ideology, if these kids are really into some other gender. Then if they are - let them be. Even before puberty (or maybe extra before). Or maybe just give them a bit of self care too? Uneasy topic, can understand some argues (whatever my personal, liberated view is on that). (with extra note, I’m totally not against hrt for trans younglings, but could talk about verification if that underage really know what they want, and that who would verify that, hope not a priest?).

    HRT for adults, who may wants to decide about OWN body? Like, I can legally get a tattoo, even on face. Can get whole new hairstyle or go bald, I can buy breast augmentation, get piercing. Can buy alcohol and cigarettes that will damage my inner body for a moment of peace in my mind (with a risk of overdosing and way more damage). Can devote own life to science or some god. It is legal to do so much stuff to self… but altering gender, even makeup or some clothes… impossible nope never.

    Uhm sorry, triggered and went out of a meme, again

    [edit] - by hrt for youngling, I mean full scale HRT, not just blockers to delay. Delaying, giving time is imho always good.
    Giving hrt to all transfolks is also big yes.
    I only worry, if younglings who say they are transfolks, trully are, or they do that on a whim, phase or such. That should NOT be excuse to ban treatment, but I’m ok if young ones get some friendly verification. In oppose to adults, that should do not need any verification.




  • Titanna@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto196@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Rule
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    14 hours ago

    Being happy and crying at the same time… yes, You makes me that too. All the time.

    Wanting milkers… I’m afraid, just hrt is often far from enough… gonna wait and see, it’s too early for me to say for sure. My goal is to have D or DD at least, if just hrt and some non-surgery stuff wont do… I wont be against implants.

    Now now, You are beautiful already, saw on many photos, don’t cry.

    Will hug You a lot when I get mine! Will hug Yours a lot when we get em :3c