Ok, you don’t wanna hear “don’t use windows” so: You won’t get rid of everything but I used the tool from Titus to unbloat some machines: https://christitus.com/windows-tool/ Microsoft really, really wants your data, so they will do qnyh possible to stop you from gaining the complete power over your device. You should be aware of that. Also, some things won’t work if you secure and debloat your machine. This could get really annoying. Good luck!
I read your post a third time: You really don’t want to share anything with MS. That’s good. You should consider using a Linux (I prefer manjaro, btw ;) ) because if you really hate MS that much, you shouldn’t use their products. If you don’t want to use a Linux, you’ll have to deal with MS. (Or Mac)