Adorable!

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Uhm, it’s actually McChicken Sauce

I’m not necessarily against net neutrality, but the first concern every article about it always brings up is “fast lanes” and throttling traffic. Are there any known instances of that actually happening?

Regulating ISPs to some degree is probably important but I would like to see more focus on the tech giants who put spyware in everything. Microsoft, Google, Apple, etc. That seems more immediately pressing to me than “ISP might throttle”

Always loved this episode. So much crazy shit in the span of one episode

w-what do those do

Fantastic asses 🤤

“There’s No Way My Twink Crush is a Girl!!”

Voice training seems very difficult. I have a close friend who is a trans woman and she has a hard time voice training despite transitioning really well in other ways. I sympathize with anyone who wants to voice train but finds it difficult. Hope it goes well if that’s something you’re trying to improve :)

This is unironically a beautiful moment. I’m glad that you were able to realize this about yourself.

In my experience these places, where taboo sexual interests are shared, are also places where we can speak in complete freedom and be more honest than we ever would be elsewhere. You can learn a lot about yourself. I have learned a lot about myself in similar corners of the internet.

Hope you’re doing well!!

Thanks!! Such a warm welcome.

I will keep specifics out of it for anonymity reasons but I have plenty to say about mormonism. Honestly my personal experience was not nearly as bad as 90% of queer people who grow up mormon. Most queer people suffer from cognitive dissonance and feelings of guilt much worse than what I dealt with. That said, it has still effected me in profoundly negative ways.

You are right that mormons leave to “serve a mission” when they turn 18. They leave for 2 years and get assigned a random place to go try and convert people. They also send missionaries to developing countries, and a lot of those missions end up being largely humanitarian, but it’s always a religious thing at the end of the day. If you’ve ever had young mormons show up at your door with name tags, those are missionaries. Be nice to them, they’re in the most cult-like part of the whole mormon church. Missionaries are expected to devote ALL of their time to working on “spreading the gospel”. It’s not technically a requirement to go on a mission but there are STRONG social incentives to go. Some of my friends didn’t want to go on missions but did anyway because they felt like they had to. I was “mentally out” (stopped believing but still going through the motions of a mormon) by the time I turned 18 so I managed to dodge that bullet.

I actually ended up leaving the church before I even realized I was gay. Because I like girls I just figured I was straight. With hindsight I have been into men since I was at least 13, but I didn’t even realize it. Like I didn’t even recognize that they were gay thoughts.

Mentally I stopped really believing by the end of high school. The thing about mormonism is that it really messes with your brain. It does this in many ways but a LOT of it surrounds sex and sexuality. ALL mormons are sexually repressed. Even the most faithful and straightest mormon is still sexually frustrated. As a mormon you get told that masturbation is a sin, and not a minor one either. Pornography is basically pure evil straight from satan’s cock. (Utah has the highest rate of porn consumption in the US.)

Really what this amounts to is that basically all mormons feel guilty because they watch porn occasionally or jerk off sometimes. I discovered porn from a really young age, probably 10 or 11. I loved it from day 1. My parents found out and put up some half hearted attempts to block porn on the home network or lock down my devices. It never really worked, I always found a way to get jerk off material. They even sent me to mormon-church-sponsored therapy a couple times to try and get me to not watch porn. It didn’t work at all, but it did reinforce a lot of the mormon sexual repression.

It has taken a while to “untangle” all the toxic shame and guilt from my brain. I used to feel like I was doing something awful whenever I jerked off. (That didn’t stop me from doing it almost every day.) I’m still not completely done with the shame, but I’m 99% clear of that shit.

By the time I moved out of my parent’s place I had stopped going to church entirely and didn’t believe in it. With this new found mental and physical freedom I was able to explore my sexuality more, and I realized how gay I am. At first I was still more or less in denial about it. I unironically did the whole “I’m just into anime traps” then “I just think dicks are kinda hot b-but not the g-guys or anything tho!!” then “ok maybe I just want to suck dick” and at that point I finally accepted that I was bisexual 😂

Thanks for reading my ramble. I could keep going but I’ll stop myself for now.

Howdy

I’m a pan dude (he/him) with a wide variety of weird interests and kinks. I love talking to interesting people, and while this place is rather small I find burggit to be a place that could be home to a lot of interesting people. I hope to see it slowly grow a niche community, even if it is just tangential to the loli stuff. Not sure if I alone can make a big enough difference, but I figure I’ll give posting more a shot.

I guess as far as my gay story goes I was raised mormon, had a lot of weird complexes and bullshit to untangle from my brain as an adult, and now I’m happily living with my bf. I could talk about mormonism and all the weird shit about it endlessly if anyone is interested. I also love to talk about kinks and sex stuff, particularly things that are on the taboo side.

I haven’t heard of any - and if there were I bet you the car companies would do everything they can to prevent you from installing it.