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Cake day: July 18th, 2023
  • chloespanked@lemmynsfw.comtoChastity@lemmynsfw.com•The old days of being caged [OC]English
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    4 days ago

    Right now, I often lock throughout the day. There are two things that prevent me from wearing my cage more: the cage is a little small and squishes my glans a bit, and the rub of the ring on my scrotum. I’ve exclusively worn plastic cage and might look into metal to reduce ring rub.

    I’m interested in a PA-secured cage with a ring (as opposed to ringless one) because I’d really love to be able to completely prevent pullout and the ability to jerk off (when the cage is on). I’m self-locking now, but I realized that I have a big fantasy of being able to hand keys of an inescapable cage over to a future partner/keyholdler. To have no ability to pull out or self-stimulate and be completely powerless to them in this respect is hot AF for me. My cage is getting tight just thinking about it lol.

    It sounds like you got a good thing with your Mistress going!

  • chloespanked@lemmynsfw.comtoChastity Community@lemmynsfw.com•How do you engage in chastity?English
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    28 days ago

    I’ve been self-locking on and off for several years. I now use a cherry keeper cage that is basically the size of my glans. Sometimes I put it on as foreplay to fapping in the next couple hours. Mostly I try (barrier is comfort) to wear it all-day on days that I wear it. I’d love to be able to wear it as much of the time as possible (eg, 24/7 and only unlock for small periods of time for predefined tasks like routine hygiene). I suppose I’m slowly learning to wear it for longer periods of time. I often but not always unlock and fap/masturbate afterwards - before I go to sleep for example. I’m more interested in the gendering and orgasm control effects of chastity (eg, can’t fap, masturbate, or penetrate anyone and are sub-like) than I am pure orgasm denial. Having a partner who is my keyholder would be a dream come true. I suppose I’m slowly working my way there (hopefully) as I become more confident with who I am, including that chastity might be a sexual non-negotiable for me (not all the time necessarily, but at least some of the time).

    More the 'why' I engage in chastity (content warning: gender dysphoria):

    Chastity is a fun fetish but on a more holistic level, I’m beginning to see my desire to wear my cage as a barometer of gender dysphoria. For example, if I wake up and want to put on my cage right away, I’ll do so but I’m also making a mental note that I’m probably feeling significantly dysphoric and I should address that today beyond just the cage. Because the cage is great but it’s not an all-in-one long-term solution to gender dysphoria for me.

  • chloespanked@lemmynsfw.comtoSissy Captions@lemmynsfw.com•Would you rather...
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    4 months ago

    A guy coming in my mouth would be sooo hot, which I haven’t actually had even though I’ve given head, and that’s what I’d pick. It feels degrading to me but in the best and hottest way possible. I’d like to taste it. I love the thought of him thrusting in my mouth when he’s close and possibly shooting down my throat too (although I wouldn’t get to taste it in that case)