Just found a good command line one.

https://github.com/schollz/croc

IT’s subscription but I really like Sleep Cycle.

https://www.sleepcycle.com/

Tailscale Send?

So I don’t have enough info to judge here but I have a few questions.

• What happens on Sundays? You were detailed about every other day.
• Is it possible on Saturdays between a split shift he doesn’t want to take on any activities besides staying in? I wouldn’t want to work between shifts
• Have you talked to him about how you feel and that you’d like more 1:1 time together?
• Foes he have commitments to sessions with other people on Monday and Thursday?

Obviously Sunday hasn’t been mentioned but it sounds like you guys get no personal time together for 6 days a week which can’t feel that great. Maybe you could talk to him about removing one of the Monday or Thursday evenings from his schedule?

Remember to use I statements when talking and discuss how it makes you feel. He’s entitled to his hobbies but if you are partners you guys need to spend quality time with each other too.