I’m a neurodivergent, asocial person. Always have been. Though i still have had a few friends during my life. I managed to get by for a while with just the 2-3 people I talk to, but recently I’ve started to get really lonely. The way i’ve made friends in the past has been someone approaching me, not the other way around though. I don’t know how to make friends/acquaintances with other people on my own. Me growing up with the internet probably played a role in my lack of real life social skills, i’m guessing

  • rtstragedy [fae/faer, she/her]@hexbear.netEnglish
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    5 days ago

    There’s talk sometimes of asocial people getting “adopted” by someone who’s very talkative and extroverted, but the fact of the matter is that you can yourself be the adopter. You are not the most asocial person in the world, there’s going to be times when you aren’t even the most asocial person in the room. And in those times, you can be as weird as you want to that person, because what exactly is that person going to do?

    hell yes this kind of relationship sounds so good to me on either side, is there like an application process or something?