• Jo Miran@lemmy.ml
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    8 months ago

    I have been with wife almost thirty years. I wish it had occurred to me to ask this so many times before saying something. So many times.

    • edric@lemm.ee
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      8 months ago

      I agree. Having a natural tendency to want to solve a problem makes us want to fix it immediately but sometimes it’s not the answer, when they just want to vent or someone to listen.