And then he misrepresented what I said after banning me:

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I was the asshole.

  • Nay@feddit.nlOP
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    7 days ago

    I can respect that. Perhaps leading by example would have prevented some of the escalation though. He might want to give himself a ban for being uncivil.

    Help me with the initialisms, though?

    YDI: You deserved It? What’s YDM?

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      YDI: you deserved it. YDM: you deserved more.

      Given the whole content of the thread I feel like 5d for each would be fair - it’s long enough to not make it look like a slap on the wrist, but short enough to acknowledge “once the ban is over you’re welcome here, but please behave better”.

      Perhaps leading by example would have prevented some of the escalation though. He might want to give himself a ban for being uncivil.

      100% agree on that. It’s the mod’s responsibility to set up the civility standards in a community, and Wren themself set the bar really low. You need to be way more cool-headed in a comm you mod than one you don’t.