cross-posted from: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/41202906

The rain came back but ima still wear my dresses!

Im sorry to hear about the comrades who dont get to be their true selves this week, i hate to see it

Ill girlmode for you! This dress is actually pretty special to me. Its my first ever dress i got after coming out to my wife! She bought it for me and i loved it 5 years ago and i love it now!!

Excuse my mess and dirty mirror, im not gonna clean it 😂

Anyone else have special clothes like this?

  • IcyToes@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
    3·
    18 days ago

    Then don’t think about it. Pick up dirty clothes, and rubbish first. You’ll see it more clearly and feel good, then the clothes that can still be worn, then you’re 70% to 80% of way there. Success is motivating.

    • brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPEnglish
      1·
      17 days ago

      True true, ill get there. My mood really affects my ability to do adult things and last week was bad sooo 🤷‍♀️

      Although they say thats not like neurotypical i guess? But i dont think ive ever met a single person who could function through that lol

        • brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPEnglish
          1·
          17 days ago

          I heard the other day that some people goto bed, get in, close their eyes, and just… go to sleep?? What the fuck is that???

          • IcyToes@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
            2·
            17 days ago

            I do that. Didn’t when I was younger. But as I am content and get older, easy. I struggle to get off games/Lemmy and allow my head to hit the pillow.

              • IcyToes@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
                2·
                16 days ago

                Oof, that sounds rough. Sorry to hear about that. Hope you work through those things grinding you down. You’ll get there. You’re worthy and deserve to be happy.

                • brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPEnglish
                  1·
                  16 days ago

                  Hey thanks so much! The world has done its level best to grind me down, but im still here. And i plan on continuing to be here, so i can help people not have to go throughh similar stuff, atleast not alone ❤️

                  I know that doesnt sound like alot of time for self care, but (without getting into too much of my past) if what has happened so far hasnt made me give up, nothing will!

                  I just hope to pass on a little of that energy to others! Also nightmares are a somewhat regular thing for me especially if i take any type of nighttime medicine, which is why i dont. I get REALLY vivid nightmares, especially on that stuff, it just happens, and idk why. But its fine, just takes like 20 minutes after waking to feel ok