Happy 4/20 everyone! I recently started drinking coffee in the last year after never really liking it. Growing up I would try my mom’s coffee every once in a while but it always tasted burnt and bitter. Looking back I realize that I didn’t like that coffee due to my mom usually steeping it in a French press for 15-20 minutes.
I got into coffee in the last year due to my roommate who worked as a barista making me some and it being actually flavorful. But we were using a drip coffee machine and it wasn’t strong enough for my liking. Before I actually started drinking coffee I liked to watch coffee gadget reviews cause I thought they were interesting? Which is how I found out about the aeropress which is my way I make my coffee in the morning.
The aeropress is kind of a three one thing cause it’s a pour over, French press and manual espresso machine all in one, in addition I use a hand crank burr grinder to grind my beans and typically only add a bit of creamer as I want to taste the coffee as much as possible I also usually use medium roast beans.
How do you take your coffee/tea?
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I got offered a job in critical care pediatrics!!!
Get to hangout today with my girlfriend, my boyfriend, my other girlfriend, my partner, and my lover 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Great day to be t4t poly
happy lesbian visibility week and earth day to all the trans lesbians!!

I gained 20 lbs while I was in surgery recovery, and I really like how big my boobs got on it… wish I could lose 20 lbs but keep my new big fat tits. This rocks.
bottom surgery
Got to use my actual dildos on myself. Having a vagina is awesome!! You just keep going, has vibe inside feels good-weird. I never did any ass play, so this is all a first. My prostate is reachable through my vagina which is also great 👍
I only bought this fuck-off huge ones cause they were fairly close to my old size (ones a little longer but skinnier, the other is pretty bang on) and everyone Ive topped has been a size queen. I am not a size queen lol, I have never claimed to be, as great as these are they would probably be more fun if they were smaller.
Ooh sounds like so much fun!!! Very jealous haha! Also even if you lose 20 pounds again won’t your boobs still be more than before that’s what someone told me?
Lunch lady commands me to give my glasses to her
I obliged with 0 hesitation
She cleans them and hands them back to me
“Much better, right”
“Yes …”
“You gave me your glasses with 0 hesitation, you trust me that much?”
“Yes …”
“If I asked for your wallet, would you also give it?”
“I don’t have a wallet but if I had one, yes”
Cute!
Being a girl really is cute ngl
True! Your cute cute cute
You as well hehe

I was here just thinking about how much more comfortable, free and at peace I feel when my parents aren’t home. Really makes you think
HRT has caused me to take better care of my appearance.
It used to be the case that people would assume I was homeless and would try to donate clothes and shoes to me (this is not a joke, I’ve had occasions on the train station where people would take off their personal belongings and try to donate them to me*).
Now? People ignore me. Which is … not really sure that’s much better …
It is somewhat nice to have people randomly pity you and try to give you shit. Makes you feel like the world cares. But I also like feeling like I’m sad and small and pathetic.
*this happened mostly in the winter where I wore clothes so skimpy people thought I was freezing because I couldn’t afford proper clothing. It was actually because I liked freezing in the cold.
more t-phobia
I guess my chest has finally grown large enough for my parents to notice, which has caused them to make remarks about how I should get a checkup with the doctor and how it’s unhealthy (god they are so controlling about my body shape).
They think it’s an exercise I’m doing. Which is better than them understanding how HRT works.
But I have gotten super self-concious about myself so thanks I guess.
After thinking it over I have decided that I don’t want to go back on HRT for a few reasons:
- I tried it once for about a year and didn’t like it
- I’m perfectly comfortable still presenting as masculine
- I have a family history of breast cancer
Sometimes I feel “less valid” because I don’t want HRT but then I just remind myself that that’s the transmedicalists and gatekeepers getting to me, so it doesn’t bother me for long.
I prefer my coffee black, maybe with a bit of soya milk sometimes.
i’ve been on and off of hrt a couple of times. right now i’m in my off time for my own reasons too and i don’t know when or if i’ll decide to go back on it. we are always valid! <3
i keep reading “bigender” as “biggender”, and really, is it incorrect?
What’s a good matrix home server? Someone wants to talk to me and I need to make a matrix user again, but dont know all the hip and happening hotspots

I found a few oriented towards lgbt and/or trans people but they had things like “nothing illegal in Germany or France” which to my eyes means “Zionism is good and antizionism will be punished” which isnt great to my eyes.
(Before anyone asks, chapo.chat isnt accepting registrations anymore)
idk about hip and happening but matrix.org seems to be a pretty easy default for most people, lots of us in tracha use it. catgirl.cloud is working well for me, but I know nothing about that space beyond enjoying the domain name and the fact that you can use the element.catgirl.cloud webapp which is nice to use alongside app.element.io for using two accounts at once in two diffferent browser tabs. genzedong.xyz is affiliated with lemmygrad iirc and has spaces for you to be as anti-zionist as you could possibly desire, but my gzd account doesn’t seem to federate properly with a lot of other homeservers.
Edit: catgirl.cloud has a “don’t do stuff illegal in Germany” rule, so maybe that’s out :/ Private E2EE chats are a thing tho soooooo…
sex on hrt
I am intimidated by what sex on hrt feels like. I have never been this insatiable and desperate during sex before. Which is weird because I had a high sex drive in the before times but what the hell, I swear somehow it’s stronger now and it’s pretty normal for me to just keep going after my first orgasm because I’m not at all sated. My partner is delighted, I’m having fun, but it certainly feels intimidating.
Awesome!! That sounds like so much fun!
Walked around a lake on a whim then went to a free botanical garden
shit was tight you can pick fruit and eat it there for free, only issue is all the low hanging fruit already picked 😭 planning on taking my gf there one day and overhead pressing her up so she can get the fruit for us. Not a viable strat for everyone but why not take advantage of my strengthThank you to everyone who commented on the previous trans mega and enjoyed the artwork
I like my coffee iced with a lil vanilla and my green tea plain, a fresh lemon squeeze on occasion
I really like your art/music themed megas, I meant to say that but I was busy last week.
Yeah it was really nice how you added more art throughout the week















