Just saw this while scrolling on fedi being posted by this user: @Rasta@zeroes.ca

  • velma@sh.itjust.works
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    19 hours ago

    !feminism@lemmy.world is rather active and we can make it more so if you truly want to discuss these types of subjects with all genders. Maybe someone else has a better community suggestion.

    None of the community members here told you those things or said you were mansplaining. Please do not paint us all with the same brush.

    Please respect that women and femme and non-binary people want a space to discuss with each other in a safe and supportive community.

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        12 hours ago

        Please, I’m begging you, read the comment sections of several posts here. You’ll be able to see how polite and respectful we are to men who accidentally post. We don’t extend warm reminders to men who leave sexist or dismissive or otherwise rude comments.

        I’d rather you look for yourself than make assumptions and comment based on those assumptions.

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          11 hours ago

          while i’m receiving replies like

          "AND DESPITE KNOWING THAT WHAT YOU ARE DOING IS EXPLICITLY AGAINST THE RULES YOU PERSIST IN DOING IT!

          Dude, read the room and FUCK RIGHT THE FUCK OFF!"

          i’d be willing to learn if you could show me where i was being anything like sexist or dismissive.

          some conflicting messages haha.

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            11 hours ago

            You were dismissive the instant you saw the rules and decided THEY DID NOT APPLY TO YOU.

            It’s that fucking simple, Sparky.

            Now FUCK RIGHT THE FUCK OFF.

            The rules are clear. You are choosing, and obviously knowingly so, to not follow them. You are not being respectful BY DEFINITION.

            The rules say, and I quote, “women only”. They do not say “women only … unless you’re respectful”. They do not say “women only … unless you really want to post”. They do not say “women only … unless what you have to say is so important that silly little women have to put up with it”.

            Follow. The fucking. Rules. You shithead.

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              11 hours ago

              By the way, for anybody taken in by his sob story about how he’s always kicked out of groups and banned:

              Twice. Neither for his hot takes on gender relations.

              The dude is not only a disrespectful cur, he’s also a fabulist.

          • velma@sh.itjust.works
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            11 hours ago

            I mean, you are repeatedly breaking the rules. That is disrespectful. You could have sent me a DM instead of commenting further.

            As you can see if you look around at the other comments, men who politely leave (or do not have a previous reputation of being jerks to us) are not shouted at but rather acknowledged as allies for respecting the rules.

            At this point I’m not so sure you’re willing to change your mind about us. It would be best for you to go now.