I’ve never understood conditional love for your children this way. I don’t love my son more or less because he’s a boy and that wouldn’t change if he is a girl. Because he’s my child, I’ve been with him every day of his little life, I brought him into this world. It’s not on me to dictate where his journey takes him, it’s on me to walk that journey with him as far as I can.
It simply doesn’t and shouldn’t matter.
The world would be a much better place if more parents thought like you
I have 2 daughters, was surprised by how many people (whom I assumed weren’t weirdos), gave me condolences for not having a boy…
Told them they could still come out as boys, it shut them up.
I lost respect for the people who responded as if that would be a bad thing.
I have 2 daughters
was surprised by how many people gave me condolences for not having a boy…What. The. Actual. Fuck.
I’m so sorry you had to deal with such people, holy shit. This is waay beyond okay. Holy shit, wtf is wrong with people??In some places it’s fuckin crazy how much emphasis people put on having a boy. Was reading an essay from a kid for work where they mentioned their family immigrated to America mostly because their grandparent refused to give land to her father because they had a girl, instead giving it to their cousin who had a boy. Imagine changing the fate of your son’s family over the sex of the kid he had?



