Like, do you really expect some kind of report card on how good a boy/girl you were for holding open a door.

Yeah that’s a totally fair representation of what the other person was arguing, lmao. Expecting some acknowledgement for doing a small gesture for others isn’t the same as wanting a report card validating your moral character.

If so, that lowkey makes you the Nice Guy asshole, expecting extra emotional labor from that person who really didn’t ask for or even want that interaction with you.

My god, the amount of assumptions and negativity you’re projecting onto the other user here is impressive.