Chronicon [they/them]

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Cake day: May 10th, 2024

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  • I think that is, to a certain extent, very normal. it’s part of why familial relationships can be so challenging IMO. Most people like, continue to grow and develop after becoming independent, and if you don’t stay like, super close day to day with your family during that time, or you have to/just choose to, hide some of the new emerging parts of yourself from them, when you do finally see them, then it’s pretty easy to end up like, a different person than you were when you lived with them, and A) feel weird about it and hide it instinctively and/or B) just fall back into old patterns of behavior and interaction when you are with them. Since you spent so many formative years with them those habits don’t just go away easy

    At least that’s my thoughts on it. If its really making you uncomfortable it’ll probably take some conscious effort to change your habits, and hopefully in time he will also adjust to match your energy and be chill/talk about a wider variety of things








  • to be clear, you don’t need to sign up for an account to disable p2p, at least on the site directly, embeds (like into cytube) might be different.

    In that case the preferences just get stored in your browser with a cookie or something (so if you wipe those regularly it will get wiped out and go back to defaults)

    Also godspeed in combatting bots tanuki, hopefully they aren’t too much of an issue, but with open reg and no email verification it might become one


  • some destinations are irresistible but yeah by and large I want to see what a place is actually like when travelling

    Like, the great wall seems like a worthwhile trip if I’m in china for a long period of time, it’s literally a wonder of the world or whatever, but like, busy tourist trap iconic buildings? not gonna be a worthwhile experience usually. Like I’d skip the space needle in seattle, or the sears tower in Chicago. You can get a better view of seattle from Kerry Park on a nearby hill than you do from the needle tbh, taking the trolleybus over there and doing that beats sitting in line downtown any day. But seeing the space needle from the ground level and taking the monorail were still interesting