As an aro/ace I’m faced with the opposite. How can I truly know that something isn’t there. Though these days I’ve mostly accepted that I can be pretty sure after 30 years of existing. And if it turns out another wayat some point, then so be it. The label doesn’t define who I am, who I am defines the label
Oof, that was me. Grew up in a homophobic society and decided I was able to make a choice (I was actually bi nb). Kept a facade going for decades fueled by self hate.
My favorite game is “everyone is valid apart from me”.
For me my favorite is the, “Maybe I’m actually gay and in denial?” Which quickly flips to, “Maybe I’m actually straight and in denial?”
Ah the bi-cycle, how I love and hate it. It’s my life though so meh, the party will continue. Lol
As an aro/ace I’m faced with the opposite. How can I truly know that something isn’t there. Though these days I’ve mostly accepted that I can be pretty sure after 30 years of existing. And if it turns out another wayat some point, then so be it. The label doesn’t define who I am, who I am defines the label
“An aggressive commitment to non-commitment” pretty well describes all the bisexuals I know, so you’re in good company at least
Oof, that was me. Grew up in a homophobic society and decided I was able to make a choice (I was actually bi nb). Kept a facade going for decades fueled by self hate.