Just saw this while scrolling on fedi being posted by this user: @Rasta@zeroes.ca

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      Women didn’t force men in Ukraine to stay and be fed into the meat grinder. This is a false equivalence.

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          Dude. Maybe my posting the rules wasn’t clear enough for you.

          SHUT THE FUCK UP YOU WHINY PRICK!

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              Men arent welcome in this community, it’s not on the community to continue to be sweet and appeasing in the face of repeated rule breaking and disrespect.

              Why are you not telling the men breaking the rules and imposing themselves on us to shut up? Why should we shut up in our own community that we have built?

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                The community you’ve built pushes supporters away. If that’s your goal, then good job

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                  If the “supporters” can’t even tolerate a single space for women to talk, then they’re not so much “supporters” as they are, you know, the status quo.

                  Fuck off and stop posting against the rules.

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                  Only when men flagrantly break the rules here. It’s easy to see when men do so accidentally and politely back out.

                  Men don’t get to come in here and drop sexist comments and then cry when we object.

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                    Actual supporters will note that if they accidentally post here they’re politely reminded of the rules. Actual supporters then back away and move to where their posting is within the rules.

                    It’s only the manosphere assholes who come charging in all RAH! and then proceed to ignore the rules repeatedly after being told.

                    Like this manosphere asshole.

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                    What an impossibly difficult rule to enforce. Sexist too, while we’re at it. But whatever. You keep doing you, queen

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              Your behaviour is why men think they can do whatever they like regardless of the rules. Shut up for your own sake.

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          Read what @velma@sh.itjust.works again, this time for comprehension.

          And while reading for comprehension READ THE FUCKING RULES OF THE FUCKING GROUP YOU’RE FUCKING RESPONDING TO YOU FUCKING WHINY PRICK!

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              Tagged? We can tag people?

              I must needs know more so I may go on a rampage of tagging people. I presume you mean with spray paint? Please?

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                At least on the Voyager app, maybe instance dependent (?), but you can add a tag to any user that you’d like.

                Like I can click your username, tap the buttons on the top right, and ‘Edit Tag’ to say ‘fabulous member of womensstuff’ that will show up next to your name when I see your comments.

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                    I just checked and on my piefed instance I can “edit notes” on their profile in the “more” dropdown. I just use the website and no app so maybe your instance has the same thing under a different name as well

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                    Aw darn, maybe someone more knowledgeable than myself can help :/

                    It’s a great tool to be able to remember the particularly standout characters around here lol

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      First off, women did not make that decision. It was the decision of men to bar young men from leaving Ukraine, so this is not relevant to the discussion. If you want to complain about anyone for this, complain about the men in power; it doesn’t make sense to blame women for this.

      Second off, you should really read the rules of the community here. The kind of hateful false equivalence you’ve shown indicates to me that you are more than likely a man. The very first rule of this community is that it is women only (and nonbinary folks that feel it is appropriate for them to participate in a women’s space). So please pack up and go elsewhere, as this is meant to be a safe space for women without the intervention of men.

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      Please read the rules of the group you’re responding to. Here. Let me help you with that: