Then you search them up and realized they were banned or removed doggirl-gloom

The sword of Damocles reminds me when, if I ever turn rightist once again, may the Hexbear ban-hammer me dead

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    I wouldn’t be concerned about “ever turning rightist again” if you have a strong philosophical underpinning for what you believe.

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    you’re probably fine if it’s a one-off thing that you apologize for and self-crit. The biggest mistake people make is trying to post their way out of it.

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      It’s genuinely this simple.

      There’s a huge gulf of space between being wrong about something (not going to get you banned) and deciding to die on a hill and turning into a corncob.(can get you banned)

      Pm_me_your_Foucaults spent like 2-3 hours doubling and tripling down in the mod chat after the other person left the chat room. A ton of other people tried to de-escalate or smooth things over, Foucaults absolutely was not having any of it. They never do, and they regularly seek out arguments.

      If they do some self-crit (the bar is on the floor) and want to come back, they’re more than welcome to do so.

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        I’m not outright angry with Foucaults, especially when some more of the context around why my username was in their mouth was posted. Annoyed, yes; exasperated by the doubling and tripling down, of course; but I’m infinitely more enraged by the rest of the community. Even more posters of em_poc are mulling over, or are actively working to cut this forum out because of today’s fuckin horseshit.

        I’d just like to ‘thank’ every smug motherfucker, REgon especially, that contributed to that; with all the sarcasm and contempt I can muster. On god, if that comm goes the way of the 'grad’s Black Comrades comm, I’m fuckin gone too; which will no doubt delight some of the power users who apparently get to skate around getting told to stay the fuck out of somewhere they’re no longer welcome.

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            I’d like to hope, but knowing just how many posters from em_poc have spoken up about their dipping out because of the settler-‘leftism’ here, I have to wonder how many we lost that said nothing before they dipped. I want the hemorrhage to stop. I want the settlers, the male-coded, the Amerikans, anyone with an iota of privilege in their fucking blood to either do better or get fucking lost.

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        There’s a huge gulf of space between being wrong about something (not going to get you banned) and deciding to die on a hill and turning into a corncob.(can get you banned)

        Honestly, I don’t understand why people double down, you know. It’s like this quote says…

        What profits {them} to bleed? Shall the dust praise {them}? Shall the worms declare {their} truth?

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      “Never stop posting! Never stop posting!” the Hexbear yelled, being buried alive in more and more sand in the morning struggle session after the Revolutionary Red Guard found their bad take stash.

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    If you’re talking about Bureaucrat specifically the account was deleted by one of the users because someone else kept getting into arguments with people or making weird comments that were catching bans from various comms.

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          Awoo, I thought she was struggle seshing over Luigi Mangione lionization (on the side of lionization) (she ain’t banned yet fully)

          Foucault, uh, IDK why

          Speaking over marginalized users and doubling down on harmful rhetoric in the Mod chat and a general history of debate pervert behavior.

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              Yeah. You see two people creating a long-ass thread arguing back and forth and both of them refusing to calm the fuck down, but only one of them is supposedly a “debate pervert”? That’s not how this works, and you should not be a mod.

              At this point I’m really close to just leaving this place behind. The vibes fucking suck.

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                If two people having an argument and after a third party chimes in, someone recognizes they’re getting too heated and uncomfortable, chooses to explain why they’re uncomfortable and then take an extended break, I think that’s valid. Removing yourself from an argument is fine. You can always disengage.

                If the other person in the argument then spends an additional two hours making wild, hyperbolic statements and doubling down in the face of multiple people trying to de-escalate, that’s not a great sign. If that person has a long history of doing this, it’s an even worse sign. Foucaults didn’t get a ban for this one single incident of an unreasonable argument, this was just the straw that broke the camel’s back for a user with a long history of starting and escalating arguments.

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                The fact that users like a frauddogg can run around sephiroth posting like the protagonist in an action movie for divorced dads, but I can’t tell people to suck my ass is incredibly telling. My issue is inconsistent moderation and favouritism.

                The moderation team reminds me of that years old video of the DSA meeting where people kept coming on with “point of order”. The mod team are like the people who reduced Gloria La Riva to “a cis woman”. They’re the kind of people you hate to have in an org, the kind of people you suggest of being a fed because they follow the fed playbook to a T (which we can’t point out here). It’s rancid and it sucks and it’s gotten really bad over just a few months.

                I’m sure these idiots are celebrating the fact so many news mega posters are gone, considering the fact several of them hate it is there. What I said in the old struggle session remains true, they’re going to end up being on a site of 7 people where they blame 3 for being bigots that scare people away, never once stopping to consider if they maybe are the ones who suck.

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                  Real talk you fuckin weasel; who the fuck do you think you are? I know you don’t fix your face to talk shit like this irl and I will sig your ass sideways for it with your translucent ass; I see straight the fuck through you. You wanna talk about “posting like Sephiroth”, let’s see bout that.

                  Pot meet the goddamned kettle. This ain’t even your WHOLE MODLOG, you absolute skidmark. I can play this game too:

                  • ‘Leftists’ like you are why I explicitly only organize with my skin and kinfolk at this point.
                  • ‘Leftists’ like you are why I have no faith in the western left.
                  • ‘Leftists’ like you are why I don’t trust anyone who bears the water of toxic masculinity even one time.
                  • ‘Leftists’ like you are why I don’t believe there’s a future where the settler-leftist and the subject-of-empire struggle together.
                  • ‘Leftists’ like you are why when someone does no investigation of their own on a subject they inquire about, I ask them why the fuck they’re yapping at me.
                  • ‘Leftists’ like you are why I left reddit and the 'grad in the first motherfuckin place.
                  • ‘Leftists’ like you are why I put apostrophes around ‘leftist’!!!

                  Where the fuck were you in the Will to Change threads? Where the fuck are your works? What do you do, and who do you do it for? Cause if I was just out here for the pat on the mf back, I could talk for hours about my org’s campaign against AFRICOM. Hell, I could talk for days about my literal goddamn years moving surplus produce through my community. When I look at you, tho, I see little more than slop in your backlog posts, slop in your comments, I don’t see you showing out or putting on for nobody. I hope to god you don’t have an org; 'cause I’d walk out on it if I saw you in it with your insufferable ass. Show and prove, motherfucker, bring it out here.

                  Because right now, all I see is a treatbrained reddit-adjacent cracker (no wonder you went for ‘Sephiroth’ like it’s supposed to be an insult, all that slop in your backlog) who’s gotten pinched for hostility EVEN MORE THAN ME on this fed (cause most of mine? From other goddamn feds. I don’t like stepping on poster’s toes here specifically; but you just out here VOLUNTEERING FOR THE DRAG); and I can’t wait to hear you say “oh i’m not white/not from Amerika/not a westerner” because motherfucker you sure as shit sound like one. I’d trade you for davel in a heartbeat even after all his defense of theftboxes.

                  So next time you think you wanna put my name in your mouth like this? Think twice, and don’t with your IMAX projector-lookin ass. You already my new example; don’t make it worse. I’mma leave this last part in header-text, so when you inevitably come back and go “well I’m not reading all that bullshit” cause I’ve seen you do it before, at least the point will stick:

                  You are not beating the allegations. You are not about this life. Take your bullshit and go home, and keep my username out your motherfuckin mouth from now on.

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              I only knew about Foucault from checking the mod log, I generally shy away from the struggle sessions because I left reddit to stop getting wrapped up in multi-day arguments with strangers.